Author: Dave Hardy

  • #DoYouSeeMe… in the Pub?

    #DoYouSeeMe… in the Pub?

    When we talk about inclusion, we often think of ramps, policies, or support plans. But real inclusion? That happens where everyday life does at the pub, over a pint, laughing with friends.

    That’s exactly what Options’ Beer Club represents.

    Launched in February 2023 by Christine Bithell from our Community and Inclusion team, Beer Club started as a way to bring people together around a shared passion: craft beer. But it quickly became much more than that. Meeting weekly at the Dead Crafty Beer Company in Liverpool, a group of people supported by Options found not just a good drink, but something rarer, a place where they could belong without question.

    And that’s the point.

    Too often, society doesn’t see people with learning disabilities in the places most of us take for granted. In the pub. At the football. Out dancing. We forget that inclusion isn’t about separate spaces it’s about being welcome in the same ones. Beer Club says, we’re here, and this space is ours too.

    Two years on, the group has blossomed. They’ve become loyal locals, familiar faces at Dead Crafty, and trusted companions to one another. The bond they’ve built over beers is rooted in friendship, mutual support, and pride. And now, they’re taking that sense of community further afield—exploring pubs across Merseyside and raising their glasses to new experiences.

    This is what Learning Disability Week is all about: making the invisible, visible. Showing that people with learning disabilities don’t just want to be included, they are included, they’re active, social, and living full lives. Beer Club isn’t an exception. It’s an example of what happens when inclusion is done right.

    So next time you’re at the bar, look around and ask yourself:

    Do you see me in the pub?

    If not, maybe it’s time to take another look.

  • Christine finds her own space to shine.

    Christine finds her own space to shine.

    For Christine, having her own space wasn’t just about redecorating – it was about reclaiming a part of her life. Living with a learning disability, Christine has faced challenges many don’t see. She once shared a lounge with other people, making it difficult for her to enjoy time in a peaceful space and decorate it to her taste. Christine, who takes pride in her appearance and home, longed for a place that reflected her personality – somewhere calm, welcoming, and entirely hers.

    Christine’s lounge was transformed into a beautiful, quiet sanctuary where she could relax, host friends and family, and just be herself. The space also allows for quiet, undisturbed time.

    The most touching moment came in December 2024 when Christine received her very first Christmas tree – something she’d never had before. Her advocate, Alison, and a close friend surprised her by decorating the tree while she was out. The emotion in the room was undeniable. It wasn’t just a tree; it was a symbol of how far Christine had come and how much this space meant to her.

    Today, Christine keeps her lounge spotless and beautifully arranged. It’s more than just a room – it’s a reflection of her strength, her individuality, and the joy that comes from finally having a place that’s truly her own.

  • Friday late with a mate!

    Friday late with a mate!

    There’s something quietly magical about staying out late with your mates on a Friday night. The laughter, the shared stories over greasy chips, the sense that the weekend has really begun. For many, it’s a weekly ritual. But for people supported by social care services, it’s not always so simple.

    Often, those in supported living are expected to be home by 10pm—not because they want to be, but due to staffing constraints and rigid rotas. Nights out are cut short. Plans are made with curfews in mind. But isn’t the freedom to stay out late one of life’s most ordinary pleasures?

    Being a creative collaborator means thinking outside the box and reimagining what support can look like. It’s about working together – with the people we support, with families, and with each other – to try new approaches that make space for spontaneity, fun, and freedom. Whether that’s flexing a rota, finding new community partnerships, or simply asking “why not?” instead of “why?”, creative collaboration helps us break free from limiting assumptions and design support that fits real lives, not the other way around.

    At Options, we believe in the beauty of gloriously ordinary lives. That means helping people do the things most of us take for granted—like catching a late film, dancing to bad 90s pop in a local pub, or getting a kebab at midnight with mates. We believe that everyone deserves the chance to live a full, ordinary life on their terms, not one shaped by shift patterns.

    That’s why we’re working to build support around the lives people want to live, not the other way around. Because ordinary doesn’t mean boring—it means belonging. It means freedom. And sometimes, it just means staying out a little later on a Friday night.

    After all, the best stories rarely start with “I was home by ten.”